Tuesday, 1 May 2007

What is Love!!

LOVE!!!! This is the one most dangerous word that can cause Ecstasy as well as Havoc and occasionally both at a time. It’s the one word that can bamboozle anyone in this world. For a long time people have been using this word for many purposes. Lust, Passion, Emotion, Boodle, Bullshit!!! And the list goes on… Damn!!! What the heck is Love?? Many people say it’s an emotion, some say, it’s a feeling and other says it’s the trust. Is it really true?? Does Love exist? Do people really Love each other?? May be. They are true. Let’s jus trust them for a moment. If they really are in love, why do they split? And why do they abuse and curse each other once they are separated? Is it what they call Love? Does Love mean to shower all that you could when you are with each other and inflict the latter’s life once the relation crumples? WTF?? What about all the promises they made, to stay with each other for the rest of the life, and stand by each other, no matter what. The “Love” that they had for each other!! The feelings, the emotions, the memories, the sweetest times, all the things that they shared, where do they all vanish? The gifts and letters that were exchanged, for which they were even ready to give their life!! Do they run into scum? Do they all evanesce at once. And without any adversity people start screwing each other and then the series of profanations go on. No regrets. All the Love is gone. Vengeance. The only thought that comes into mind. And for some others, its jus a part of life. They get into an other relation and then there’s an other “Love of my Life”. And thus the cycle goes on.

Don’t people ever realise the mistake they commit? Don’t they understand what they keep doing? Don’t their inner self object them?

Its jus the impact of infatuation that draws their attention onto the other person. A small remarkable resemblance to their dream boy/girl that they feel. That’s all. They keep fantasizing that the other person is made for them. And then.they utter to themselves. “OMG!!! This is the Guy! Yes! Its Him!! Yes Him that I’ve been waiting all my life. And yeah.. I finally met him!!” Real damn Bullshit!! And within a moment they fall in “Love”. This is what is Love. F**K!! And then the never ending drama and their sequels go on and on. But don’t they ever feel like thinking for a moment. Jus for a single moment!! What the hell am I doin? Where am I running myself into?

Its jus for few moments of pleasure and a crave for emotional support, that people run into this hogwash. Yes!! Love means sefishness. Its jus that you want your desires to be fulfilled and hence you are in Love. The need may be anything. As I’ve mentioned.. Lust, Emotional support or wateva.. Everything’s plastic. Noting exists in real. Yeah Nothing.

I’ve been speaking all this. But am I flawless?? F**k No!! Even I run myself into this deep Shit. Even though never wanted to. And yeah!! I did blame her. For all that shez done to me. I hate her. Yes I do. But, deep in my heart. I feel. Yes!! I feel all this. All that I spoke. But then, Even I am a normal human being. And I do realize the meaning of “To Err is Human...”.

11 comments:

shveta said...

hmmmmm... a self experience.....??

afer all everything happens for a reason...... hain na.......

bull said...

gud thing u ventd out ur anger....

n i really think its quite a real thing thts happenin these days....

keep up the gud wrk n keep bloggin

Dilip said...

well said buddy.......probably speaking with ur experience i guess.....

It is true wat u said....well done dude.....keep up the gud work

Unknown said...

heyyy nice blog of love its really gr88..!!! hav u evr faced d probs wid sum 1 (gal) kya..HOPE U HAV FACED IT anyways.. wat evr u hav said ws absolutely ryt thts wat i feel ..!!! SIMPLY SUPERB ..!!! KEEP IT UP!!keeep bloggin..!!!!

Unknown said...

heyyy nice blog of love its really gr88..!!! hav u evr faced d probs wid sum 1 (gal) kya..HOPE U HAV FACED IT anyways.. wat evr u hav said ws absolutely ryt thts wat i feel ..!!! SIMPLY SUPERB ..!!! KEEP IT UP!!keeep bloggin..!!!!

Enigma© said...

@ swetha

hmm.. kinda difficult question to answer.. but yeah.. experience pours out feelins in the best way.. if the post is good, then u decide it urself.. ;)

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@ augustine

hmm.. its jus wat came out of me. dunno if it's anger or frustration, but i luved it..

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@ dilip

experience teaches a lot many things dude.. i luv experiences. though they give tough times..

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@ amritha
the post speaks it all..

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and everyone of u.. thanks for the comments. lovin ur presence here.. thanks again..:-)

Praneetha Gadiyaram said...

dear ur talkin of only one kind of luv.. guess there's more luv in dis world in de form of parents, siblings n so on... anyways an eye opener bout true meanin of teenage love..

Mystic Rose said...

as i heard somewhere.. love doest stop.. it just morphs into something else.. :). sometimes deepr , sometimes not.

Anonymous said...

I never wanted to leave a comment but culd not stop doing for this blog(what is love......)
Yes... what you wrote is purrrrfect....
You were ryt wen u said " Love is bullshit"Its indeed nothing but selfishness...who else can know it better than u n me?
And thank you for hating.... (if the gal u were refering to, is me...)

Unknown said...

yeah.... woteva u said iz true.....

i totally agree wid ya.......

but lemme tell ya one thing..... dont think abt past life.....try 2 frgt ur past.... live in present.....dream da future.....

nywayz ALL THE BEST ra....

Enigma© said...

@Praneetha

Yes dear, there are many kinds of relations, but in this blog i'm talkin abt the relation which is different from all of them.. and the whole post says it all...

@Mystic Rose

Yeah may be.. love morphs.. if it really is love...
if it doesn't we'd be left alone.. and humans as far as i know wud never prefer to live alone... So it shud "morph"...

@Anonymous

Dear thanks a lot for ur comment here.. But u aren't the girl i was talkin abt in this blog.. and this post is not intended to u.. and i can never even think of hating u.. and i never did.. wanted u to be happy... and that is the only reason y i never even tried to cal or get back to u..

@Nagarjun

Dude.. past reflects our future.. but yeah.. i'm tryin to forget.. and abt this girl, for whom i poted this.. i forgot her.. and thanks ra.. for ur support..